See Grandma, my eyes are really dark blue....not big brown ones like daddy

See Grandma, my eyes are really dark blue....not big brown ones like daddy

Ryan and friend

Ryan and friend
Mommy, Daddy, I'm saying Hi to Grandma?

This one is for you, Grandma!

Nathan

Nathan
soccer with determination and no airplane distractions

Monday, December 22, 2008

Radio Program, WESO 970AM

It was very surprising to hear a Radio station talk about the Real Christmas. That is of course, the birth of Jesus. Fr. Peter and Dick reminisced about other things such as: the times of services, and told heart warming stories, in an informal atmosphere.

Fr. Peter announced that St. Michael's Christmas Liturgy will be held at 5PM, in order to accommodate as many as possible of the people who will then hold their family traditional parties.

Much was said about family, friends and how they spend their time with loved ones. A mention was made to the less fortunate, those still without power and the lonely. One week ago a young man's life ended here needlessly. We need to be more observant, caring people.

It was mentioned how cold things have become out there with the advent of computers, telephone services and the like. You can talk to who you want, when you want and if you want. You can hide or misconstrue your true feelings, and stay as disconnected as you wish. Fr Peter pointed out, it is quite different than the face to face meeting. Sometimes you may not understand what the other person is saying and take things wrong. (Where face to face, you would rectify it at once.) At times, you do it purposefully. Its facts, not feeling when they can't see your face, just briefly answering the question. Most importantly, on your own timetable. Whereas face to face, it is spontaneous and final. Unlike a script that can be changed after rereading for clarity. There is a copy if you so desire for your record. All very impersonal and business-like. My mother was good for making us look her in the eye. So, he does have something there about eye contact.

Some times people miss each other and because of pride stay apart. Often they don't even remember the reason that they separated in the first place. I'll bet, they would welcome you with open arms, if you gave them a chance. The message is that you need to be the first. That is not always easy. Our family fought for years, then actually separated completely. It was horrible. My sister's wish for our family was to see us get along before she passed away unexpectedly. She'd be happy to see us get along now.

Life is too short. Just don't put it off any longer. Someone may be missing you this Christmas.

The message of Christmas is this: with the coming of Jesus, also came the great Peace. The Peace between heaven and earth. One of my favorite songs is also "Let There Be Peace on Earth and Let It Begin With Me." If there is a rupture between you and someone, repair it this Christmas. It may be the best Christmas of your life. The decision is yours. And don't forget the person responsible for this celebration, Jesus, our Lord.

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